Thursday, March 8, 2007

How Do You Spell Relief

As old age begins to take it's hold on me, I find myself more irritable and ooohhhh so easily agitated by EVERYTHING. (especially men). I've just come accross too many 'can't get rights.'

It's easy to avoid a person you have no initial interest in, but what about those who seem to slip through the cracks of your time. You've met them....conversed with them....dated them... to find you can't stand them and they've done NOTHING wrong: not your cup-a-tea...or perhaps you've become more partial to coffee. At any rate, this person has come to adore you and rightfully so...lol (in most cases).

Integrity has long since been your middle name and freedom is your choice...for you and the poor soul who's become lost in you. I know my brutally honest way of simply telling them "we're just not compatible" has not proven favorable amongst most men, but I've not learned to handle things differently.

The question is not "should I go or should I stay, " but more so...How Do You Spell Relief (from the grief). I'd like to know what some of you guys have done or said to get rid of someone you no longer wanted to be bothered with.

18 comments:

Mika said...

girl...sometimes you just gotta back off from them. You gotta stop calling them, and ignore their phonecalls. I know that may seem ignorant, but I think that's better than cussing them out and getting real nasty. Sometimes they get the hint....and other times they don't. But whatcha gonna do!!!!

Tiffalldy said...

I think Ciara song Like a Boy says it all. Females have to start treating them the way they treat us. When a man does not find a woman attractive he doesnt think of a nice way to let her down. He normally just never calls her again or answer her calls. How do you spell releif? Act, Think be like a boy.

Anonymous said...

How do you spell "G.R.I.E.F"?

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JustMeWriting said...

lol... so seems like ditching the call takes the lead, but even with that there come a point when you might have to give some sort of explanation. 'I'm so sorry...I've just been going through a lot lately' lol....for some reason that ALWAYS seems to work.

mika, you and tiff are TERRIBLE...lol...(sike)

Anonymous said...

A man only wants you when you don't want him. If you act real clingy and bring up commitment he will probably start running. If he doesn't then there's probably something wrong with him. Then its time to be nasty. either way he will not be going anywhere until he is ready.

JustMeWriting said...

YES.. that's so true...thanks anonymous. MEN...um, um, um,

Sheri said...

Girl...the talent just seems to ooze out of you. Keep it up girl...keep it up.

JustMeWriting said...

OH STOP.. (no...don't) LOL. thank you mama... I try..

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Erika said...

First of all, don't use the "old age" phrase as I am older than you. LOL. I think that you should continue to be honest with the brother/s. If the two are you are not compatible, than tell him that it's not going to work out for that reason ( in a very gentle manner).Tell him that your the one with the problem because it probably true. LOL. No seriously, if he is mature he should be able to handle it. Stay true to yourself. Now if the brother continue to pursue after you told him that you're not interested ,than you may need to use an another technique. In that case, ignoring wouldn't be ignorant.

JustMeWriting said...

girl...you know it ain't ever me...LOL. but yeah...that's a good way to go...THANKS E.

Shahbaaz said...

Well; Since I don't have any compulsion when it comes to what I am not feelin', I just found it easier to say,"Hey..., this is just not me!" Love it or Hate it, they have to respect it..

dc_speaks said...

lol...another great post...looks like some of your female friends sharredd the same opinion tha ti gave you

keep em coming!

JustMeWriting said...

LOL.. yeah, well they say great minds think alike...so.. I expect nothing less..

Anonymous said...

You have some really thought provoking topics/posts here. Thanks you very much for sharing them with me. I look forward to more insight and improvement to my own thought process through your vehicle.

peace&love
James

JustMeWriting said...

well THANK YOU James for stopping by and leaving your mark...it's greatly appreciated...there is more to come; Lord willing.