Wednesday, May 2, 2007

Good Mommy, Bad Mommy!?!?!?!?!




Parenting! There's no handbook to lead us in the right direction, and try as we may, sometimes our best efforts leave us thwarted. Who's to say ANYWAY; PARENTS, CHILDREN, SOCIETY or GOD...who's responsible for determining the properness within parential guidence...well I AM, yup...me (at least today on here I AM).



I think this prose is a bit TOO MUCH and has no real purpose. When we're raising our children, we should do so with this thought; What kind of ADULTS are we rearing? What will be the damaging effects of our parenting tactics or lack of. I'm not going to go too deep into this topic since it's late in the day, and I'm coming down with a cold or something...so I need all my energy and TRUST, this is a very draining topic for me, but feel free to comment and I'll address this properly at a later date...sorry if anyone was sickened by this...

16 comments:

CapCity said...

Okkkkk, now that I'm up off the flo' cuz I thought that first photo was of U & your child, Sis JMW! I was thinking - she's taking this blogging game to a whole 'nuther level! ROFLMAO!!!!!

Whew..I gotta go re-read the post to see what the point is again...cuz i can't stop laughing!!

Torrance Stephens bka All-Mi-T said...

i write about family and parenting all the time on my blog,u should check it out - and nice blog

dc_speaks said...

um...did u have to start with that pic at the top, T? Geeeeez..this post was very troubling for me. I am a parent, not just a sperm donor and I have to say that I see kids act off the chain in different places ie: playgrounds, stores, and in their cars.

Adults have not caught on to proper rearing techniques because it's not important to them.

Great post.

JustMeWriting said...

CAP: LOL...NO YOU DIDN'T THINK THAT WAS ME...LOL. um, um, um... girl, I'd just lock myself up...right in my basement...hahah!

Mr al-mi-t:...lol, I'm liking that name. Thanks for stopping by, and I must surely will be checking you out as well...thanks again.

DC: lol... I had to get the people's attention...LOL. YES on the child rearing, that's why I posted that quote, it says it ALL.

Nic said...

Hello.
About the video...I don't know what to say. I really don't. Wait.....umm...here comes something...OUCH! I mean I'm not a doctor or anything, so I'm not going to say that there is a designated time to stop breastfeeding, but damn it, if my child is old enough to chew on a steak, or eat corn on the cob, they're not allowed near my "TT's"

That is all.....Good Day.

JustMeWriting said...

LOL...ok and anytime they can say...'um, this taste better then mangos'...it's a problem...I'd never even tasted a mango until about age 25...lol. WHAT A SHAME.

Rich in the Stl said...

I thought that was your butt too until I realized it didn't fit your picture.

JustMeWriting said...

WHAT...LOL...U 2, ok you guys I have a secret...I'm BLACK...LOL, and I'm NOT even lightskin...neither are my sons...lol so don't ever get confused like that again. HAHAHAH!

dc_speaks said...

i knew that wasnt your butt, T.

By the way, let me make it known how proud I am that you have become such a wonderful blogger. The pictures and the youtube skills that you picked up in the last couple of months is fantastic.

Keep em coming.

Ensayn1 said...

Unfortunately too many people are into what they are into to be into their children. Its simple, pay attention and never forget you were a child. But, um for some of the super light bright folk pictured here they often are waaaaay off the mark when raising children. I saw one with his child the other day and he told his 3 year old (I guess) to sit down in the shopping cart and the child said NO!! Then the dad said well then just be careful. If that were me as a child I would be picking up my teeth, if it were my child he or she would be picking up their teeth....Simple stuff...LOL

JustMeWriting said...

ensayn1: I know that's right on the 'super light' tactics...LOL. The reason we have Time Outs and BootCamps; just crazy for no reason. LOL at that lil story...that's too funny, because if I say no to my mother TODAY, I'd be picking up my teeth... AHHH, good old fashioned Black raising...lol.

thanks for coming by...I hope to see you again. when I do part 2 of this lil segment.

mark said...

JMW that lady was off the hook, If she breast feeding her husband I could digest the situation a little better.

But the child above the age of 3 I cant process that very well.

Anonymous said...

I think the mother is a molester and I want her locked up and stoned. The daughter is stupid for doing it when she like eight and I want her locked up and stoned. Hell, I want the maker or youtube and this blog locked up and stoned...LOL!

CapCity said...

ok, i'm up off the floor now:-)...JMW, I did not know that u weren't light skinned - but the blond baby is what gave it away for me finally:-).

regarding the terrible way that too many parents raise their kids - all i can say is - u can only raise kids to be what U KNOW & experience. If the adult isn't willing to step up & discover, learn, excel in more than they were born with - then heaven help the children. Good post, for real:-)

mark said...

" If the adult isn't willing to step up & discover, learn, excel in more than they were born with - then heaven help the children."

mark bey: Amen sista Cap city

JustMeWriting said...

Mark: LOL! RIGHT, but at one point I thought she was going to...right on camera. LOL. Man, it's crazy what we train our children to be.

Anon: LOL... you're a idiot... but remember let he who is without sin cast the first stone...LOL. so YOU'LL never be able to stone me... LOL. sike anon u know I lub u. (ilk, that almost made me puke)

Cap: YES INDEED, We also go to what we know or what we wish we knew...funny; we'll either give them what we had...what we wanted or nothing at all.