Friday, July 6, 2007

Beautiful Kisses

Kissing! Four lips pressing against each other doesn't really sound amazing, but there is this magic...this chemistry that starts with that union. Great loves and lovers have acknowledged the truth of them through a kiss.

One of my most memorable kisses was with this guy I'd dated about a year or so ago (I've mentioned him in two other post). We'd gone on about 3 dates by the time he said..."I've been thinking about kissing you and I can't wait any longer" (wow...I love a man who takes his time, but knows his limits...lol). Now, I'm going to breakout this special moment:

Time: it was about 11:00 p.m on a weekday

Obstical: (things always seem better when you've got to overcome something to get it) my neighbor was on the porch with some of his friends...they were all about 18 and I wasn't comfortable sitting in front of my door kissing on him with them looking.

Excitment: there's something kinda wonderful when you've waited for that first kiss from someone special. This had just a lil extra for me since he then had to drive around looking for the perfect spot to press his lips against mine.

Location: location, location, location...is everything...set the mood. It was dark and quiet...right around the corner from my house.

The Moment: he parked, we sat quiet with these stupid looks on our faces (looking ahead) we then turned to each other (still looking real stupid) he moved in, I giggled (OH BE QUIET) then it happened...for about 15 seconds....NICEEEEEE!

Afterward: I told that rotten son-of-a-beep to never call me again...LOL. Just kidding (It took me a minute to get to that), but we went back to my house (the boys were gone) so he asked..."can I kiss you again...since noone's around" I said yes and smiled.

What's your most memorable kiss? Enjoy the video...it's a beautiful ending to a beautiful kiss and the start to a wonderful weekend.

p.s -this would SERIOUSLY be considered as my wedding song (if the Lord allows).

49 comments:

Nic said...

JMW! Hey girl :)

Before I click on this link I have to ask.....Is this safe for work?

Lookin' kinda' raunchy!!!

Plus I just wanted to be first ;)

JustMeWriting said...

LOL... YOU SO SILLY...HAHAHA. YES, IT'S SAFE. It's Beyonce...lol.

Tasha said...

What a great memory! I love that song! I try to hate on Beyonce sometimes, but I just can't!

I'd have to say my most memorable kiss was when my guy gave me a scrapbook of all the cards my (late, favorite) grandmother had ever given me for my birthday. He kissed my forehead and kissed the bittersweet tears from my eyes. Nothing sensual or sexual, but memorable always because I know that kiss came from his heart.

Nic said...

Ohhhhhhhhh Sh********t! I remember this song. It was on the "Romeo & Juliet" soundtrack. The one with Claire Danes & Leonardo DiCaprio back in the late 90's. Beyonce didn't do it though. This song is soooo pretty. A beautiful choice for a wedding song, and YES! the lord will allow. He's just making sure dude got all of his ish together, before he sends him out to you.

As far as first kisses go......girl I blocked all them negros out of my mind.

NEXT QUESTION!

DJ Black Adam said...

My most memorable kiss was when I kissed my wife when we got married (I know, kinda sappy, but true).

Nice song btw, you have great music taste.

Nic said...

@ tasha.

Ahhhh! He got you with the forehead kiss. I know his was genuine, but......

Girls....watch the "Best Man" to learn about this kiss/trap.

anonymousnupe said...

Whew! Didn't know it was gonna get all PG-13 up in hur. I think I need to call my wife to see if she can leave work early today (while the kids are still in camp)! You know we--your loyal 13 readers--were wonderin' why you didn't just escort slim into your domicile in the first place, since you were sittin’ right there in front of it. Didn't want to seem too forward, right? At least not until after you found out whether dude could really lay one on you, curl your toes, huh?

Most memorable buss? Hmmmm...it's kinda sordid, now that I think about it, through no real fault of my own, so I won't go there. I have mixed emotions about it, I guess, but it was “memorable,” most def!

GC (God's Child) said...

the last kiss is the most memorable to me.
I had to practically command my current boyfriend to kiss me. He is SO respectful!

Anointed1ne said...

Man you brought back memories! My most memorable kiss was crazy. After she kissed me, I promise you I thought I saw fireworks going off on the horizon! I must have be out of it!

Ms. Behaving said...

LOL --- Well...well...well now ain’t payback a mo’ fo!! I can’t see the video :-( sigh…

I hate having to wait til I get home from work…shoot what am I supposed to do while I’m here lol.

Girl….I could get into some thangs about my most memorable kiss---BUT I won’t considering baby girl will be lurking round these parts shortly and she's just itchin to get that kinda info bout' me LOL.

Dude sounds like he had the potential to be a “keeper”. Hmmm Ima have to read more about him from your other posts. :-D

Enjoy weekend my sista

MzCoko said...

My most memorable kiss is probably the worst one... kinda funny tho.. I was at the club (back in the days when I used to juggle 7-8 guys at a time.. miss those days...) when I was about 18 and dude was 24.. He had a thing for my lips I guess.. I dunno.. so we had been on a couple dates and I just so happened to see him in the club.. he had been trying to lock me down but I wasn't having it.. I was too young and I had JUST started talking to guys for real.. like only for about 6 months.. and then there were other guys at that same club that I talked to.. so ANYWAY.. This DRUNK negro tells me something like "if u really care about me u would kiss me right here on this dance floor" I say "You know I don't like public displays of affection, NO" as I was saying no he stuck his tongue down my throat... his tongue... probably the grossest feeling i've ever felt in my mouth.. and thats the most memorable one.. lol

JustMeWriting said...

tasha: OOOHHH... that's beautiful and don't chu listen to nic about the forehead kiss...LOL, because they sure are special.

nic: yeah...she remade it and I hear there's some drama behind it, because she changed something she didn't have the right to do. Most memorable kiss...YOU'D BETTA MAKE ONE UP...YOU KNOW DA RULES...LOL.

Dj-Adam: that's the most beautiful thing...ever... I almost got misty.

nic: WHAT... YES THEY WORK...SO WHAT...LOL.

nupe: LOL. my loyal 13 huh...hahahah! thanks for being apart of the pack, but you'd betta tell ya story mista. I wasn't a fast girl (back then...lol) but I said I love a man who takes his time.

gc: LOL... girl, "command him"...that's so funny.

anointed: LOL... wow that's some special kiss...that's what's up...that's those sparks...that magic.

ms.b: LOL... DAG, she done messed up me hearing the story...because I KNOW it was going to be good. Yeah, he was actually AIGHT till he showed me some things I didn't like, but he's featured in the "Dating Me" Parts 1& 2.

mzcoko: LOL.. Oh my goodness girl... you almost made me sick with that...there's NOTHING worse then being kissed by someone you don't like...just sick for days...LOL.

CapCity said...

nice song - but i thought a visual kiss would be involved not just a show of beyonce...again. i can't hate on her tho' - she's making the best of her marketable years;-).

my most memorable first kiss was my most recent first kiss...i don't know what The Creator has in store for me & my newest - but this brother is definitely resetting the bar back to the heights i was accustomed to before i came to nyc;-) my apologies for the digression - it's just been awhile since it's been this good:

Our first date where we salsa-danced to the music in our heads under the stars beside the hudson river...our faces brushed, noses rubbed, lips parted and the brother literally inhaled me before gently, slowly touching my lips with his....a kiss i will NEVER forget....ahhhhh....

anonymousnupe said...

Ok, since you insisted: I can't remember exactly how old I was, but it was proly somewhere between 10 and 12. I was visiting my cousin's cousins, if that makes any sense, somewhere in D.C. I had never met them before. I think they were on my cousin's mother's side. They were kind of a weird crew, I realized later in life. Anyway, we're kickin' it in the living room, the three guys, when the female cousin of my cousin comes sashaying down the stairs. I was like, "Tell sugah!" She must have been around 18, and she came right over to me and started gushing about how handsome I was. Then you know what she did? She put her hand gently on my chin and gave me a gentle, full-on-the-lips, semi-wet smack (no tongue, though; guess she had at least a few scruples). What I was feeling at that moment must have been very apparent on my face, 'cause her brother commented, "Girl, you betta stop that for he have you upstairs!" I was apoplectic. I had never, ever felt such visceral pleasure in my entire short life. AND THEN SHE DID IT AGAIN!!!! And then she was gone. The guys were laughin' at me, 'cause I was now officially IN LOVE!!!! No more good the rest of the visit. Every time the floor creaked I was breakin’ my neck to see if it was her coming back!

Unfortunately (or maybe it's a very, very good thing), I never saw her again until I attended her funeral about 10 years ago. She died of cancer, in her late 30s to mid-40s, I believe, with a teenage daughter at the time. Told you it was a little sordid.

Nic said...

Okay.

I'll tell you the story leading up to the "best kiss". Alright, it was a Friday night in L.A. The air was cool, and everyone was outside. Craig had just finished beating up the neighborhood bully "DeeBo" for hitting me like I was a fuggin man. When everything was over we walked to the curb. I placed my hand on his flannel shirt and aranged to see him the next day............



ARE YOU HAPPY NOW JMW???


;)

Nic said...

@ anonymousnup

WOW! That was sordid.
Crazy that she passed so young though.

Peace

JustMeWriting said...

cap: DAG... girl, that was short but SWEEEEET as pie...LOL. NICE.

nupe: WHY... do you ALWAYSSS have a whopper story, GEESH...I'm bout to put you on restriction...lol. That was like a mini movie...I saw it all even the funeral THANKS A-LOT...BUDDY!

nic: I HATE YOU...LOL... HATE, YOU HEAR ME...HATE...lol.

Nic said...

Now why you wanna be like that??????

:)

anonymousnupe said...

Always a whopper 'cause I'm old, remember? Seen, done a lot...and not enough. And again, YOU MADE ME TELL IT!!

Nic said...

@ anonymousnupe, do you have a blog?

JustMeWriting said...

NO...HE JUST COMES AROUND TO HARASS OTHER PEOPLE'S BLOGS...LOL. (SIKE, YOU KNOW I DON'T MEAN THAT) LOL.

JustMeWriting said...

lol..and yeah, I guess I did make you tell it, but you didn't have to do it up...you could have left out the tear-jerker...DAG.

nic: LOL.. BECAUSE you KNOW you've got a REAL one... I betta not here you even THINKING bout mentioning a piece-a kiss on your page next week...hum!!!

Shai said...

My goodness, I get in trouble with my kisses. LOL. One of the most memorable is the last time I flew in love. The guy told me he loved me and the kiss was explosive. LOL. Unfortunately, the negro was not right. LOL. Whew! That man that man we had chem-is-try!

Nic said...

that's too bad :(

anonymousnupe said...

Nic, I have a blog (nyeah, nyeah, nyeah, nyeah, nyeah, JMW), but it's pretty esoteric and local (northern Prince George's County, MD). It doesn't have the international appeal, say, that a Knewday does. It's not all personally insightful or anything like JMW's. It's just the hobby/community service outlet of an old, frustrated journalism major. Feel free to check it out (if JMW does not mind me shilling my site on her space). It's at www.beltsvilleshopper.blogspot.com.

JMW, about doing it up: Have you ever known me to do it any other way? Besides, you expect the best from your loyal 13, right? To whom much is given...

That's what's up. LOL!

Nic said...

@ anonymousnupe,
Dang, I had to pull the frown face out to get the response I wanted? That's a shame, LOL!
Seriously though, I will definitely check it out. I'm sure it is very interesting. Thanks and have a good weekend.


Peace

anonymousnupe said...

Not really, Nic. Shhh, I just took an extra long lunch, and in the meantime Ms. You-Know-Who figured she'd respond for me (like this is her blog or somethin'). Oh, and I check you out from time to time, as well.

(And don't tell nobody, but I didnt' pledge; I just like the moniker.)

Sheletha said...

okay why did i make reference to the best man forehead kiss on Rich's blog today???

great minds think alike, i tell ya

JustMeWriting said...

shai: LOL... girl the kiss can be magic and the brother is mayhem...lol, I know.

nupe: LOL... YOU'RE GOING TO GET IT, BIG TIME MISTER...LOL. (talken bout me like dat).

sheletha: LOL... yeah, but it's a good kiss RIGHT...AGREE WITH MEEEEEE...LOL.

Nic said...

@ Sheletha,

We should win some type of blog prize or something. :)

JustMeWriting said...

and ANOTHER thing MR. NUPE, WHYYYYY somebody got to PRY that info outta you... HUH...HUH? UM, HUM... NO ANSWER, JUST LIKE I THOUGHT!

Thoughts of a Southern gal said...

My most memorable kiss was with my current man. The first time we kissed I felt something that I've never felt before. It was like magic! lol

Nic said...

OMG! JMW you just scared the crap out of me. I thought you were off working somewhere. Not paying attention, while we run rampid all up n through your comment section. Exchanging blog adresess and what-not. I should have known...Big sis is ALWAYS watching. Glad I didn't say anything crazy. You live in the same city as me. I don't want any trouble JMW. LOL!

anonymousnupe said...

Pry? Well, you never axed! Y'all have a wonderful, cup-over-runneth-over kinda weekend.

JustMeWriting said...

LOL...I SWEAR...I'M GOING TO HAVE YOU (NIC) AND NUPE THROWN OUTTA HERE...LOL. (two of my favorite people) awwwww...I feel a lil 'mush' comin on.

NOW, back to business...
southern: it's SOOOO special when that special moment is with someone you're STILL with...just makes it even more special.

NIC & NUPE... I've got my good eye on you two...LOL.

Sheletha said...

like nia says...."its damn near erotic"

@nic...prizes are fun, im ready for a day off...

Sheletha said...

@mupe....i like the "cup-runneth over type weekend" im going to use that with somebody....

you've been bit.

Sheletha said...

whooops...I meant @nupe... Im getting my nails done, so there will be no more future mistakes...

JustMeWriting said...

Yes...it sure is something else... but SOOOO misleading.
It could mean: "boy, do I have some serious feeling for you"

Or is could mean: "boy, you such a nice girl...darn shame I'm gay"...LOL. just kidding on the part after 'shame'...LOL.

AIN'T NO PRIZES BEING GIVEN OUT HERE...WHERE'S MY PRIZE FOR WORKING TODAY HUH...LET'S TALK BOUT DAT! LOL. (boy am I'm EXTRA silly today)

Nic said...

*whispering @ anonymousnupe*

Hey. I checked out you blog............. Left a comment............ Check it out :)

*don't want to get on JMW's bad side* ;)

Nic said...

Walkin' to the corner.

*Singing*
"Diamonds on my neck, di, diamonds on my grille. She's bossy she's. She's the first one to scream on the track.........."


(Don't know wy I stay gettin' in trouble over here?!?!;)

Shai said...

@Sheletha: The forehead kiss is something alright. It is possessive, sweet in a good way. Damn, I think I have a poem forming in me. LOL.

CapCity said...

my fave screen kiss is in love jones - hell that's my all around fave lovemaking romanick flick...always needs me a cigarette afterwards & i don't even smoke. LOL!

y'all & that dayum fore-head kiss - see what u started:-)

so, nic done "outed" bro nupe - nah we can all be up in his biz...but nic can have him - i'm wking on my own dance pahtnah;-). LOL! have a Grrreat weekend...spillin' ovah & all!

malieta said...

You guys crack me up and I needed to laugh! I will always remember my first kiss, neither of us were sure how to kiss but we figured it out(lol) Now....since I'm older, I don't like to kiss. I know I'm weird but a peck on the lips is enough:)
You guys have a nice weekend and that song by "B" was alright! I mean I like the words but she "over sings" sometimes....:)

feels good b n FREE said...

i always luv kissing...
i don't have a very memorable one.
but dang 44 comments???

lol

i luv Beyonce...wow

Ticia said...

Hey Girl... I loved this post...

Well, my most memoriable kiss would be my freshman year in college with a man I was totally in love with....and now being totally honest with myself...he was "the one" but I was stupid...on to the kiss....

We were at a party dancing...and THERE....he took my lips and it was on..... that was the night I was fireworks, you know how they do it in the movies...bang..boom.....it was beautiful, magical, and the best kiss I have ever had....

I love that Beyonce song....

So, to the end the story...I loved him but could never express it.. the reason for this, because I didn't know how to love myself, so I couldn't express it to him..I lost a good man..but I am very happy to have shared that time with him---

Oh God..I have never written these thoughts out--- *gets a drank*

jameil1922 said...

i love this song. and i love kissing. i am a kissing fool. not like stereotypical white sorority girls but i just love kissin! lol

Sojourner G said...

She looked deep into my eyes as we sat at the restaurant and said, "I want to kiss you." I was really taken aback, since we weren't in that type of relationship. (Since this isn't my post, I'll fast forward).

I walked her to her car and admired her build as she slid in. I came around the door, got down on one knee, reached around the back of her head, and entered heaven throught the gateway of our lips. I heard her keys hit the floor.

Muah

JustMeWriting said...

nic: LOL.... GIRL YOU BE TRYNA DRIVE ME CRAZY...LOL

shai: YES that forehead kiss is something else.

cap: WHICH kiss in Love Jones? I love that movie too.

malieta: awww... so you guys learned together. Man, I loves a good kiss.

free: love was made for kissing...lol. yeah but that's only because nic had so many jokes...lol (she's tryna get me fired for laughing)

ticia: LOL... dag boo, I'm sorry to get cha head back in that dude...nothing worse then thinking about the 'ONE that got away'...UM... now, let me stop before I start thinkin bout mine.

jameil: hahahah...you're a "kissing fool" huh...lol.

soj: LOL... dude, you so silly and I was like...'this sounds like something I'd be reading on his page'...hahahah, but you know you can give the WHOLE story here anytime. NICE story too..