Friday, August 10, 2007

Randomness

Today I'm going to share a few of my most despised phrases!

1)“It was love at first sight!” – I hate to hear people say this…there’s no such thing to me; love takes time. You might be really attracted to a person and have a strong connection, but it’s not love.

2)“I’ve put my life on hold for my children!” – WHAT? Why aren’t your children considerd your life.

3)“He’s such a good man for taking care of his kids.” – I really can’t stand this phrase; I don’t really feel accolades should be given to a parent for doing what a parent SHOULD do.

4)“Those kids are so bad!” – NO, those kids parent's are so bad.

5)“If you step out of your comfort zone, you’d see I’m a good guy.” - WHY??? Why should I be uncomfortable for YOU...get outta my face please-thanks!

6)“But, God knows my heart!” - OHHHH boy, please don’t use that as an excuse to stay in ya mess.

7)“Well, can we just be friends? “ NO! Friendship is not requested...it’s built, and not based on you wanting to get your foot in the door…again, please get outta my face.

8) "Maybe He's not gay...maybe he's bisexual!" WHAT... well if there's a difference to you then gon' keep the party going...THERE'S NO DIFFERENCE, HE'S GAY!!!!

OK...HAPPY FRIDAY GUYS...HAVE A WONDERFUL WEEKEND! Enjoy one of my favorite songs and videos!

24 comments:

Sojourner G said...

I believe I'll ride with you on the whole "God knows my heart" thing. Most people don't realize that just by saying that, you're most likely trying to explain away particularly ungodly behavior. {SMH}

Have a great weekend Shug!

DurtyMo said...

HA! These were great! I agree with you 10000% especially the one about "can we still be friends?" Huh? Umm no. Ha! Have a fantastic weekend and STAY OUT OF TROUBLE!

Opinionated Diva said...

I'm with you on each and every one of these...especially #3. I haaaaaaaaaaate to hear that one!

anonymousnupe said...

We're kindred spirits on these. Most def. And it perturbs me when I have my three kids--sans wife--and someone says something like, "Oh, you're babysitting today, huh?" Uhm, McFly? They're my children, too! Do black people actually say that "Love at first sight" nonsense? I thought only white folk in soap operas used that.

MzCoko said...

lol... i'm going to be you when I grow up... "God knows my heart" and EVERYthing else that u do.. he knows u have ungodly intentions...

"we can be friends" I'm sorry my friends don't cheat, lie, blow me off etc. etc. etc.... just call it what it is...

love does not equal lust.

MzCoko said...

oh.. u updated... he's a good man for taking care of his kids...

i put it like this... i have no problem if a guy that i talk to has a child.. stuff happens.. i was an accident myself.. nehoo.. I have a problem if a young man tells me that he has a child.. and that's the last thing i ever hear about the child... cuz then.. he's cut.. i don't play that dead beat daddy stuff... i mean.. i'm not playing stepmama either.. but i feel like if u not taking care of your child then you are not a man and if something just so happens to pop thru the packaging and i get pregnant.. you won't take care of mine either... so.. i'm chunking the deuce and keeping it moving..

look at you.. got me writing essays and school doesn't start until september 4th!

Organized Noise said...

#3 reminds me of one of Chris Rocks comedy specials where he was talking about men asking for credit for stuff they are supposed to do. Saying things like "I takes care of my kids" or "I'aint neva been to jail".

Cluizel said...

#5 is my favorite! lol. I agree with you on all of them though...

JustMeWriting said...

soj: YES! I can't stand when people say that and follow up with; "God's grace can cover a mulitude of sins." So it's ok for you just gone keep going until you reach that multitude huh?

durty: hahahah...yes girl that kills me. You have a wonderful week too and I'll be sure to TRY to avoid all potential dangers...LOL!

op.d: girl, I just want to slap someone everytime I hear that.

nupe: YES... "BABYSITTING"... what the frig???

mzcoko: HAHAHAH... I'm sorry for making you work, but you're so right on both accounts. What you do or don't do with what you already have is a good indicator of what you'll do later.

KIKI said...

HI-5, just!

1)true
2)true
3)fo sho
4)so true
5)negro puhleez
6)umm...guilty (hanging head in shame)
7)hale naw

LOL...have a GREAT weekend!

Smooches

Honey-Libra said...

LOL..he's not gay he's just curious..yea curiously gay LOL

Gotta love these random thoughts

Ms. Behaving said...

LMBO!! Girl please believe that I agree with er'ry last one of em'!!!

Hope you have a fantastic weekend!!! :-)

jameil1922 said...

i think all of blogland is in a tizzy today and yesterday. y'all are tryin to get my pressure to rise. i'm about to have to sign off right now messin w/y'all. "He’s such a good man for taking care of his kids" is one of the most disgusting phrases ever. THAT'S HIS JOB!!

Tasha said...

I'm so with you on all of these especially #3 and #4. Have a great weekend!!

DJ Black Adam said...

Bwahahahahahaha!! I remeber R. Kelly dropping the "God knows my heart" after the video of him and the alleged 14 year old came out...

Tom_Gurl said...

#3 MAKES ME SICK! I mean, do mothers who take care of theirs get called 'good women' I think not! Why is it just cos he's doing what he's SUPPOSED to, automatically makes him a good man...? Cos he's not a dead beat dad? C'mon!!!

Moving on (cos I'm bout to get real mad!lol)

#8-A bisexual male takes part in 'activites' (as we'll call them) with people of the same sex....guess what gay men do....??? yup-exactly!

Man......SMH!

Tom_Gurl said...

#3 MAKES ME SICK! I mean, do mothers who take care of theirs get called 'good women' I think not! Why is it just cos he's doing what he's SUPPOSED to, automatically makes him a good man...? Cos he's not a dead beat dad? C'mon!!!

Moving on (cos I'm bout to get real mad!lol)

#8-A bisexual male takes part in 'activites' (as we'll call them) with people of the same sex....guess what gay men do....??? yup-exactly!

Man......SMH!

Mega Rich said...

#3 is just as bad as a man saying he's babysitting his kids -- No!! You are being a doggone DADDY!

Shai said...

#1 and #3 are some of my top pet peeves.

GC said...

on number 5,
I agree with you, but I agree with the speaker too. Nobody should try to tell you when to step outside your comfort zone. That's up to you, knowing where you are at and what you are ready for. People get into serious problems ignoring who they really are and what they want. But at the same time, sometimes considering something we never would have before can turn out to be such a great thing.

JustMeWriting said...

gc: Oh, I totally agree with you...it's always good to consider new things, but you should not consider anything just to accommodate another person when it's not something you want.

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natural muze said...

maaan i can TOTALLY feel these.

i don't think love at first sight exists either. and that 'God knows my heart' is just a way to do mess and get away with it.

i had to tell a guy today that i am not interested in being 'just friends' with him...ugh!

good post.

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